“A man does not rise because life is easy—he rises because life leaves him with no choice but to stand stronger than yesterday.”
Introduction
The life journey of Dr. Umed Singh is not a story built on privilege, shortcuts, or comfort. It is the journey of a man who was shaped by responsibilities before he was ready, strengthened by hardships he never expected, and guided by a quiet determination that grew within him long before the world noticed his success. Born on 02 July 1968 into a simple Yadav farmer family, he began life with limited means but unlimited values—honesty, humility, and the courage to keep moving forward. His father, Sh. S. R. Yadav, worked tirelessly in the fields, and from him, Umed learned the dignity of labour. His mother held the household together with patience and resilience, reminding him that strength often lives in silence.
However, life changed drastically when he lost his father during his education. It was a moment that shook him deeply—emotionally and practically. Overnight, childhood ended, dreams were put aside, and responsibility took centre stage. With the entire family looking to him for stability, he stepped into adulthood not with certainty, but with courage. He often recalls that phase as the most challenging period of his life, a time when “everything felt like it was slipping away, yet giving up was not an option.” It took him years to regain balance, but that dark phase became the foundation of his never-give-up spirit.
Civil Engineering was never his ambition. He had hoped to complete his graduation and attempt IAS or IPS, but life had other plans. Under family pressure and the urgent need to earn, he accepted the path available to him. He completed his Diploma in Civil Engineering and began working in 1989. What started as compulsion slowly became purpose. From Site Engineer to Project Engineer, and eventually to senior roles like GM/DGM Projects, he climbed the ladder through sheer hard work, not shortcuts. He became known for his discipline, technical understanding, and commitment to quality. Every site taught him something—patience, leadership, responsibility, and the real meaning of building from scratch.
But the turning point came in 2006, when he decided to create something of his own. Motivated by the desire to upgrade his life, secure the future of his family, and generate employment for others, he founded THREE–S CONSTRUCTIONS, an Engineering & Construction company. He started at a very small level, with only a few people beside him—most importantly his close friend Mohammad Farooq, who stood by him like a trusted companion. Step by step, project by project, the company grew. Today, it proudly holds a 40+ crore turnover, an in-house design team, and a strong lineup of qualified engineers. They specialise in industrial greenfield projects, delivering complete solutions from building structure to electrification, fire-fighting, and handover.
Yet, beyond the numbers and achievements lies a man of deep simplicity. Dr. Umed Singh still lives with the humility of his roots. His wife Santosh played a pivotal role by ensuring he never carried home responsibilities to work. She created a peaceful, supportive environment, allowing him to focus on growth without distraction. His two sons, one a Civil Engineer and the other managing operations, now walk beside him in the business. His family has grown with grandchildren, and he remains grateful that his children will never have to face the compromises he once did.
“Some beginnings are small, but the values learned in those moments carry a man farther than any wealth ever could.”
Phase 1: Roots in the Fields: Childhood, Family, and the Making of Character
The story of Dr. Umed Singh begins far away from the noise of cities, far away from the world of industry, construction, and leadership. It begins in the quiet fields of rural India, where the soil was both a teacher and a companion, and where life flowed with simplicity, hard work, and deep human connection. Born on 02 July 1968 into a humble Yadav family, he entered a world where every sunrise demanded effort and every sunset delivered lessons. Nothing came easy—but everything came honestly.
His father, Sh. S. R. Yadav, was a farmer, a man whose hands were shaped by years of tilling land, whose back carried the weight of both crops and responsibility, and whose heart knew no shortcuts. From him, Umed learned the earliest lessons of life—discipline, dignity, and the value of perseverance. Farming is a profession where effort does not always guarantee reward; nature decides the final outcome. Yet, his father never complained, never blamed, and never gave up. This quiet resilience became one of the strongest foundations of Umed’s character.
His mother, too, played a vital role in shaping his early life. Managing a household in a farmer’s family was not a small task. It required patience, strength, and endless sacrifice. She lived a life of simplicity, ensuring that her children grew up with values rather than demands. She taught him humility, kindness, and the silent power of nurturing. Her influence can still be felt in the way Dr. Umed Singh interacts with people—with gentleness, with empathy, and with a deep sense of responsibility.
Growing up in a rural environment meant that luxuries were few, but lessons were plentiful. Life had its hardships, but it also had a purity that shaped his heart. As a child, Umed would often accompany his father to the fields, watching how much effort went into growing even the smallest crop. It taught him early on that progress does not happen overnight; it grows slowly, rooted in consistency. He learned to respect labour—not just his own, but everyone else’s too.
Schooling in such an environment also brought its own challenges. Educational resources were limited, and opportunities were scarce. But Umed was always a determined student. He may not have had the comforts that many children enjoy today, but he had something more precious—a desire to rise, to learn, and to change his circumstances. He often felt that education was the only bridge that could take him from a life of struggle to a life of stability.
Even as a young boy, he dreamt beyond the boundaries of his village. He wanted to study further, become well-qualified, and uplift his family. His earliest ambition was not to enter engineering but to complete his graduation and pursue civil services like IAS or IPS. He wanted to rise to a position where he could bring honour to his family and contribute to society at large. This dream stayed in his heart for a long time, even though life later took him in a very different direction.
“Some moments break a person, but some moments also remake him. Responsibility arrived early in his life, not as a choice—but as the only road forward.”
Phase 2: When Responsibility Arrived Early: Loss, Struggle, and the Birth of Couragen
The second phase of Dr. Umed Singh’s life was not defined by achievement, progress, or opportunity. Instead, it was shaped by a profound loss—one that changed the course of his destiny forever. The passing of his father, Sh. S. R. Yadav, came at a time when he was still a young student, barely beginning to understand the world. The shock of losing the man who had been his guide, his strength, and his example created a void that no words can fully describe.
In that moment, childhood ended. Dreams paused. Life shifted.
Until then, he had been a boy with ambitions—to study further, to graduate, perhaps even to attempt IAS or IPS someday. He carried big dreams, and his heart believed in reaching far beyond the boundaries of his village. His father’s presence had been the silent assurance that he could aim high, study hard, and take time to build his future. But when Sh. S. R. Yadav passed away, that assurance disappeared, leaving behind a young boy standing alone at the crossroads of responsibility and survival.
The death of a parent is always painful, but for Umed, it was more than emotional loss—it was a sudden transfer of burden. He was no longer one among many; he became the pillar for everyone. His mother needed support. His family needed stability. The household needed income. And he needed courage in a quantity he had never been asked to summon before.
He often recalls those days with quiet heaviness, describing them as the most challenging period of his life, a time when he felt he was “completely broken,” yet could not afford to break. He had lost not only his father but also the sense of protection and direction that every young person relies on. In one moment, the future went from hopeful to uncertain. The sense of security was replaced by the urgency of survival.
But even in grief, he understood something very clearly: there was no other choice but to stand up and carry on.
He did not have the luxury to collapse under the weight of emotion. There were no resources, no savings, no financial cushions to lean on. He had only two things—responsibility and determination. These became his internal engines, pushing him forward when everything else pushed him down.
In the months following his father’s death, Umed struggled not only emotionally but also practically. Decisions had to be made. Education had to be reconsidered. Dreams had to be reshaped. With a heavy heart, he realised that pursuing long academic ambitions or competitive exams like IAS/IPS was no longer possible. The family needed income, and quickly. The responsibility of providing for everyone was suddenly on his young shoulders, and he had no one else to depend on.
“Sometimes the path we choose is not the one we dream of—but it becomes the path that teaches us how to stand, how to grow, and how to rise.”
Phase 3: A Career Born from Necessity: Choosing Civil Engineering Under Compulsion
The third phase of Dr. Umed Singh’s life marks the transition from emotional struggle to practical decision-making. Having faced the deep personal loss of his father and stepping into responsibilities far earlier than most young men his age, he now had to prepare himself for the world outside the comfort of home. But unlike many who get the luxury of choosing their careers based on passion, interest, or exploration, Umed had no such freedom. His choices were not shaped by desire—they were shaped by responsibility.
As a young student, his heart was not set on engineering. His dreams stretched further—towards graduation, competitive exams, and possibly the prestigious civil services. He wanted to aim for IAS or IPS, to rise to a position where he could serve society at a higher level. But dreams require time, and time was something.
This is how Civil Engineering entered his life—not as a passion, but as a practical solution.
Under the pressure of circumstances and family expectations, he enrolled for the Diploma in Civil Engineering. For many, this might seem like a simple academic choice, but for him, it was a profound sacrifice. He put aside the ambitions he once cherished and walked into a field that demanded toughness, discipline, and physical endurance. It was not an easy decision, but it was the right one for the survival of his family.
He often says with honest simplicity, “Civil engineering was never my interest. I joined it because my family situation forced me to. I had no option to take a U-turn.” These words reflect the reality of millions of young Indians who must choose paths not out of desire but out of duty. And yet, what is remarkable about Dr. Umed Singh is that once he made that choice, he gave it everything he had.
The college years were challenging for him in every way—emotionally, academically, and financially. While other students could rely on their families for support, Umed carried the invisible weight of responsibility even as he sat in classrooms or prepared for exams. Sometimes, the financial pressure made it difficult to focus, but he kept reminding himself why he was doing this—not for personal ambition, but for his family’s survival.
The Diploma in Civil Engineering was not just a qualification for him; it was a doorway to stability. It promised a chance to earn, to take care of those depending on him, and to break out of the cycle own limitations that had held his family for generations. He understood early on that engineering, especially civil engineering, offered steady work, respectable income, and a future he could build with his own hands—even if it meant giving up the dreams he once held close.
Note of Thanks
In reflecting upon the life and journey of Dr. Umed Singh, it becomes impossible to separate his achievements from the people who stood beside him through every struggle, every breakthrough, and every silent moment of courage. This note of thanks stands as a heartfelt tribute to all those whose presence shaped his path and strengthened his resolve.
He extends his deepest gratitude to his wife, Santosh, whose unwavering support became the backbone of his life. Her quiet strength, her patience, and her ability to shoulder every responsibility at home allowed him to focus on building a future for the family. Without her, none of this journey would have found its rhythm or peace.
He offers profound thanks to his beloved sons, who stood with him as learners, companions, and now pillars of the family legacy. Their dedication, respect, and willingness to walk the path he created inspire him every day.
He offers profound thanks to his beloved sons, who stood with him as learners, companions, and now pillars of the family legacy. Their dedication, respect, and willingness to walk the path he created inspire him every day. His heartfelt appreciation also goes to his close friend Mohammad Farooq, whose support from the earliest days of his career became an anchor during difficult times. His guidance and presence brought emotional stability, motivation, and companionship when it was needed most.
To his extended family, relatives, and the many individuals who worked with him at THREE–S CONSTRUCTIONS, he expresses sincere gratitude. Their hard work, trust, and loyalty helped transform a small dream into a flourishing enterprise.
Finally, he thanks the community—those who believed in his work, trusted his character, and opened doors through which his efforts could grow. Their faith reinforced his commitment to honesty, quality, and service.
Finally, he thanks the community—those who believed in his work, trusted his character, and opened doors through which his efforts could grow. Their faith reinforced his commitment to honesty, quality, and service. This journey is not his alone; it belongs to everyone who walked beside him. And to each one of them, Dr. Umed Singh offers his deepest thanks.
Thank You
Dr. Umed Sing